Days go by…<\/strong> F\u00f3r \u00ed dag \u00e1 sm\u00e1 “kvennafyrirlestur” \u00fear sem gesturinn\/fyrirlestarinn var yfirkona hj\u00e1 Google. H\u00fan byrja\u00f0i a\u00f0 vinna hj\u00e1 \u00feeim fyrir 6 \u00e1rum og var sautj\u00e1ndi starfsma\u00f0urinn og n\u00fana stj\u00f3rnar h\u00fan “user interface-inu” hj\u00e1 \u00feeim. Og h\u00fan er l\u00edklega bara svona \u00feremur \u00e1rum eldri en \u00e9g. H\u00fan var samt vo\u00f0a uppl\u00edfgandi og allt \u00fea\u00f0 og \u00fea\u00f0 var uppl\u00edfgandi a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 m\u00e6ttu margar konur \u00e1 fyrirlesturinn og a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r spur\u00f0u spurninga sem \u00e9g var l\u00edka a\u00f0 velta fyrir m\u00e9r. Kannski a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur s\u00e9 ekki einn \u00ed heiminum eftir allt saman? <\/p>\n Samt horfir ma\u00f0ur \u00e1 svona konur og veltir fyrir s\u00e9r hvort ma\u00f0ur g\u00e6ti gert eitthva\u00f0 svipa\u00f0, hvernig ma\u00f0ur fari a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 “meika \u00fea\u00f0” \u00ed alv\u00f6ru heiminum. Ekki endilega “meika \u00fea\u00f0” fj\u00e1rhagslega, heldur vinna \u00ed vinnu sem er spennandi og krefjandi og hentar manni og ma\u00f0ur getur \u00feroskast \u00ed og l\u00e6rt hluti og gerir samt ekki kr\u00f6fu til \u00feess a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur hitti aldrei fj\u00f6lskyldu s\u00edna e\u00f0a missi viti\u00f0. Hvernig byrjar ma\u00f0ur? Hvernig veit ma\u00f0ur hvert ma\u00f0ur \u00e1 a\u00f0 fara? Hj\u00e1 hverjum a\u00f0 vinna? Hva\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur geti\/kunni\/komist upp me\u00f0? <\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00ed raun svoldi\u00f0 svindl a\u00f0 vera \u00ed doktorsn\u00e1mi. \u00dea\u00f0 er gert r\u00e1\u00f0 fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur stj\u00f3rni s\u00e9r sj\u00e1lfur, s\u00e9 sj\u00e1lfur a\u00f0 stunda s\u00ednar “ranns\u00f3knir” og eftir a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur s\u00e9 b\u00fainn a\u00f0 v\u00e6flast um sk\u00f3lann \u00ed n\u00f3gu langan t\u00edma \u00fe\u00e1 s\u00e9 l\u00edklega h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 \u00fatskrifa mann, svona eins og f\u00f3lk er \u00fatskrifa\u00f0 af ge\u00f0veikrarh\u00e6lum ef \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00fdnir n\u00f3gu g\u00f3\u00f0a heg\u00f0un. \u00c1 me\u00f0an er f\u00f3lk \u00ed alv\u00f6ru vinnum a\u00f0 gera alv\u00f6ru hluti \u00ed alv\u00f6ru heimi. <\/p>\n En \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki \u00e9g. \u00c9g lifi \u00ed h\u00e1lfger\u00f0um draumaheimi, f\u00e6r a\u00f0 d\u00fatla m\u00e9r vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 setja upp m\u00f3del af annarri pl\u00e1netu og velta fyrir m\u00e9r hva\u00f0 gerist ef rafsegulbylgjur eru sendar fr\u00e1 geimfari r\u00e9tt yfir sj\u00f3ndeildarhringnum, \u00fe\u00e6r lenda \u00e1 yfirbor\u00f0i pl\u00e1netunnar og beinast svo til jar\u00f0ar. \u00c9g g\u00e6ti allt eins veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 prj\u00f3na nema hva\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 myndi gagnast einhverjum. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n Sum s\u00e9, \u00e9g er komin \u00ed \u00feunglyndis-tilvistarkreppu doktorsnemandans. \u00dea\u00f0 hl\u00fdtur a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0a a\u00f0 n\u00fa styttist \u00ed annan endann \u00e1 \u00feessu \u00fev\u00ed eftir gle\u00f0ina a\u00f0 uppg\u00f6tva a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur geti gert \u00fea\u00f0 sem ma\u00f0ur vill, kemur \u00feunglyndi\u00f0 og kv\u00ed\u00f0inn yfir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feurfa \u00ed raun og veru a\u00f0 gera \u00fea\u00f0 – og finnast ma\u00f0ur ekkert komast \u00e1fram. \u00de\u00e1 er l\u00edti\u00f0 a\u00f0 gera nema skr\u00ed\u00f0a \u00ed r\u00fami\u00f0 og vona a\u00f0 n\u00e6sti dagur ver\u00f0i betri, a\u00f0 andinn komi yfir mann og allt gangi upp. Stundum gerist \u00fea\u00f0. 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Anna S\u00f3lr\u00fan er n\u00fana \u00f6ll a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a hraustari, h\u00fan bor\u00f0ar betur, sefur betur og vi\u00f0 b\u00ed\u00f0um bara \u00ed r\u00f3legheitunum eftir n\u00e6stu flensu. Vikan hefur flogi\u00f0 hj\u00e1. \u00c9g er b\u00fain a\u00f0 vera a\u00f0 potast vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 vinna, en geng \u00e1 hvern vegginn \u00e1 f\u00e6tur \u00f6\u00f0rum og \u00ed \u00f6rv\u00e6ntingu minni f\u00f3r \u00e9g a\u00f0 leita m\u00e9r a\u00f0 vinnu \u00ed Evr\u00f3pu. \u00dea\u00f0 gekk ekki neitt neitt. Best a\u00f0 sn\u00faa s\u00e9r aftur a\u00f0 matlabb bara…<\/p>\n