{"id":293,"date":"2009-01-27T22:11:00","date_gmt":"2009-01-27T22:11:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/finnur.net\/blog\/?p=293"},"modified":"2009-01-27T22:11:00","modified_gmt":"2009-01-27T22:11:00","slug":"%c3%beroskamat-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/2009\/01\/%c3%beroskamat-2\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00deroskamat"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00cd dag m\u00e6ttu hinga\u00f0 tv\u00e6r konur til a\u00f0 fara yfir st\u00f6\u00f0umat \u00e1 \u00feroska Bjarka og r\u00e6\u00f0a framhaldi\u00f0. \u00d6nnur konan er \u00feroska-s\u00e9rfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur, hefur heims\u00f3tt okkur \u00e1 m\u00e1na\u00f0arfresti \u00ed n\u00e6stum \u00e1r, og framkv\u00e6mdi st\u00f6\u00f0umati\u00f0. Hin konan er “case worker”\/umsj\u00f3narkona(?), og h\u00fan s\u00e9r um a\u00f0 hann f\u00e1i alla \u00fe\u00e1 \u00fej\u00f3nustu sem hann \u00fearf \u00e1 a\u00f0 halda. B\u00e1\u00f0ar eru \u00fe\u00e6r ind\u00e6lar, og \u00e9g hef ekkert \u00fat \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e6r a\u00f0 setja nema a\u00f0 umsj\u00f3narkonan talar frekar sl\u00e6ma ensku.<\/p>\n

Ni\u00f0ursta\u00f0a st\u00f6\u00f0umatsins er a\u00f0 \u00feroski Bjarka er innan e\u00f0lilegra marka. \u00c1 sumum svi\u00f0um er hann \u00f6rl\u00edti\u00f0 eftir \u00e1, en \u00e1 \u00f6\u00f0rum er hann \u00f6rl\u00edti\u00f0 \u00e1 undan me\u00f0altalinu. Mati\u00f0 var gert \u00feegar hann var 14.5 m\u00e1na\u00f0a (lei\u00f0r\u00e9tt, 18 m\u00e1na\u00f0a \u00ed alv\u00f6runni). \u00dea\u00f0 f\u00f3r \u00feannig fram a\u00f0 \u00e9g var spur\u00f0 spj\u00f6runum \u00fat \u00far um hva\u00f0 Bjarki kann og gerir (miki\u00f0 af “Uhhhh?… \u00dea\u00f0 veit \u00e9g ekki, \u00e1 ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 taka eftir svolei\u00f0is?” sv\u00f6rum) , \u00e1 milli \u00feess a\u00f0 h\u00fan lag\u00f0i \u00ferautir fyrir Bjarka sj\u00e1lfan.<\/p>\n

Hann m\u00e6list sum s\u00e9 11 m\u00e1na\u00f0a \u00ed “gross motor”\/st\u00f3rum hreyfingum, en 16 m\u00e1na\u00f0a \u00ed “fine motor”\/f\u00ednum hreyfingum. \u00dea\u00f0 stemmir vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sem vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum s\u00e9\u00f0, \u00fev\u00ed hann hefur alltaf eytt miklum t\u00edma \u00ed sko\u00f0a heiminn me\u00f0 puttunum og er \u00fev\u00ed fingralipur, en minna veri\u00f0 \u00ed l\u00f6ngum fer\u00f0al\u00f6gum \u00fear sem sni\u00f0ugt v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 geta gengi\u00f0. \u00deannig f\u00f3r hann ekki a\u00f0 skr\u00ed\u00f0a fyrr en hann var gj\u00f6rsamlega b\u00fainn a\u00f0 grandsko\u00f0a allt \u00ed s\u00ednu n\u00e6sta n\u00e1grenni – sem t\u00f3k t\u00edmana tvenna og \u00ferenna! \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

N\u00e6st m\u00e6list hann 13 m\u00e1na\u00f0a \u00ed “self-care”\/sj\u00e1lfsum\u00f6nnun – \u00fea\u00f0 er a\u00f0 drekka \u00far bolla, tyggja mat, hj\u00e1lpa til vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 kl\u00e6\u00f0a sig, bi\u00f0ja um mat\/drykk og vita hva\u00f0 er \u00e6tt og hva\u00f0 er \u00f3\u00e6tt. Hann m\u00e6list sem 19 m\u00e1na\u00f0a \u00ed “attention og memory”\/athygli og minni, enda dundar hann s\u00e9r vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 lesa b\u00f3k \u00ed lengri t\u00edma og leitar a\u00f0 f\u00f6ldum leikf\u00f6ngum. Enginn athyglisbrestur \u00fear \u00e1 fer\u00f0. Hins vegar m\u00e6list hann sem 11 m\u00e1na\u00f0a \u00ed “perception and concepts”\/skynjun og hugt\u00f6k. \u00dear er \u00e1tt vi\u00f0 hvernig hann skynjar og sko\u00f0ar heiminn \u00ed kringum sig, hvort hann hermir eftir andlitshreyfingum o.s.frv.<\/p>\n

\u00deegar kemur a\u00f0 samskiptum m\u00e6list hann sem 11 m\u00e1na\u00f0a \u00feegar kemur a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 skilja \u00fea\u00f0 sem a\u00f0rir segja og hl\u00fd\u00f0a \u00fev\u00ed (“receptive communication”). Helst hefur veri\u00f0 erfitt a\u00f0 f\u00e1 hann til a\u00f0 benda \u00e1 hluti eftir skipun, sem dregur hann ni\u00f0ur. Hins vegar m\u00e6list hann 14 m\u00e1na\u00f0a \u00feegar kemur a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 sig (“expressive communication”), enda bla\u00f0rar hann \u00fat \u00ed eitt meiripart dags, kann \u00f6rf\u00e1 or\u00f0 (ma-ma, ba-ba, b\u00e6-b\u00e6, na-na (Anna), abbe (apple)) og hefur sterkar sko\u00f0anir \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed sem hann vill.<\/p>\n

Hann m\u00e6list 13 m\u00e1na\u00f0a \u00ed “adult interaction”\/samskipti vi\u00f0 fullor\u00f0na. \u00deannig gerir hann greinarmun \u00e1 f\u00f3lki sem hann \u00feekkir og \u00feekkir ekki, er k\u00e1tur a\u00f0 f\u00e1 athygli og \u00fear fram eftir g\u00f6tunum. A\u00f0 lokum m\u00e6list hann svo 18 m\u00e1na\u00f0a \u00ed “self-concept and social role”\/sj\u00e1lfsvitun og f\u00e9lagsheg\u00f0un. Hann er sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0ur, ver\u00f0ur rei\u00f0ur \u00feegar d\u00f3t er teki\u00f0 af honum, hermir eftir \u00f6\u00f0rum, er \u00e1hugasamur um leik og \u00fear fram eftir g\u00f6tunum.<\/p>\n

\u00dear sem Bjarki m\u00e6list innan “e\u00f0lilegra marka” (minna en 25% eftir \u00e1 \u00ed aldri, \u00fea\u00f0 er meira en 10 m\u00e1na\u00f0a) \u00fe\u00e1 \u00fearf hann ekki \u00e1 neinni \u00feerap\u00edu a\u00f0 halda sem stendur. Umsj\u00f3narkonan minntist samt \u00e1 a\u00f0 ef hann dregst miki\u00f0 aftur \u00far me\u00f0 tal, \u00fe\u00e1 myndi h\u00fan \u00e1v\u00edsa \u00e1 hann tal\u00fej\u00e1lfara einu sinni \u00ed viku \u00ed sumar. Vi\u00f0 sj\u00e1um samt hva\u00f0 setur me\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0, \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki n\u00f3g me\u00f0 a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 fyrirburi, heldur er hann l\u00edka karlkyns og tv\u00edtyngdur svo a\u00f0 \u00e9g b\u00fdst ekki vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 hann ver\u00f0i altalandi \u00e1 n\u00e6stunni.<\/p>\n

En sum s\u00e9, Bjarki er \u00e1 nokku\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0u r\u00f3li, og vonandi heldur hann \u00fev\u00ed \u00e1fram. \u00dev\u00ed ver\u00f0ur samt ekki neita\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00e9g s\u00e9 enn\u00fe\u00e1 me\u00f0 \u00e1hyggjur \u00ed bakhluta heilans, \u00fev\u00ed \u00fe\u00f3tt ma\u00f0ur lesi um fyrirbura sem vegnar vel \u00ed l\u00edfinu<\/a>, \u00fe\u00e1 eru m\u00f6rg langt\u00edma-vandam\u00e1l<\/a> oft til sta\u00f0ar, jafnvel \u00fe\u00f3tt 2ja \u00e1ra sko\u00f0un hafi komi\u00f0 vel \u00fat<\/a>. Svo vi\u00f0 h\u00f6ldum \u00e1fram a\u00f0 b\u00ed\u00f0a til a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 hva\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur.<\/p>\n

Talandi um sj\u00f3n… \u00c9g hef haft h\u00e6gra auga\u00f0 hans Bjarka gruna\u00f0 um leti (“strabismus”)<\/a> undanfarna m\u00e1nu\u00f0i, \u00fev\u00ed m\u00e9r hefur s\u00fdnst a\u00f0 hann v\u00e6ri \u00f6rl\u00edti\u00f0 rangeygur. \u00cd dag s\u00e1 \u00e9g hins vegar greinilega a\u00f0 h\u00e6gra auga\u00f0 rann inn \u00ed \u00e1ttina a\u00f0 nefinu \u00e1 me\u00f0an vinstra auga\u00f0 h\u00e9lt s\u00ednu striki. \u00deegar \u00e9g minntist \u00e1 \u00feetta vi\u00f0 kennarana hans s\u00f6g\u00f0ust \u00fe\u00e6r hafa teki\u00f0 eftir \u00feessu s\u00ed\u00f0an \u00ed n\u00f3vember, og h\u00e9ldu a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r hef\u00f0u minnst \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 vi\u00f0 mig. Uhh.. nei, ef fr\u00e1 er tali\u00f0 samtal sem \u00e9g \u00e1tti vi\u00f0 eina \u00ed ma\u00ed \u00feegar hann var miklu minni og hann f\u00f3r \u00ed augnsko\u00f0un m\u00e1nu\u00f0i seinna. \u00deannig a\u00f0 \u00e9g panta\u00f0i t\u00edma hj\u00e1 barna-augnl\u00e6kni \u00feann 11. febr\u00faar, og \u00fe\u00e1 f\u00e6r Bjarki v\u00e6ntanlega augnlepp.<\/p>\n

Og svo \u00ed lokin, myndir! \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

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