{"id":263,"date":"2009-02-24T22:30:00","date_gmt":"2009-02-24T22:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/finnur.net\/blog\/?p=263"},"modified":"2009-02-24T22:30:00","modified_gmt":"2009-02-24T22:30:00","slug":"foreldrafundur-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/2009\/02\/foreldrafundur-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Foreldrafundur"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>R\u00famlega fj\u00f6gur \u00ed dag m\u00e6ttum vi\u00f0 Finnur \u00e1 foreldrafund \u00ed bekk Bjarka. \u00a0Hann var me\u00f0 \u00f3venjulegu sni\u00f0i, og greinilegt a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 var veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 pr\u00f3fa eitthva\u00f0 n\u00fdtt. \u00a0Kennararnir \u00fer\u00edr h\u00f6f\u00f0u sum s\u00e9 h\u00f3a\u00f0 \u00ed allar fj\u00f6lskyldunar sj\u00f6 og be\u00f0i\u00f0 okkur um a\u00f0 hittast \u00ed &#8220;margnota-herberginu&#8221;, sem er st\u00f3rt r\u00fdmi nota\u00f0 fyrir kynningar, vi\u00f0ger\u00f0ir, geymslu o.s.frv. \u00a0\u00c1 me\u00f0an voru varakennarar (&#8220;s\u00f6bbar&#8221; e\u00f0a &#8220;subs&#8221; fyrir &#8220;substitute&#8221;) me\u00f0 kr\u00f6kkunum.<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u00deegar fulltr\u00faar fr\u00e1 \u00f6llum fj\u00f6lskyldum voru m\u00e6ttir \u00fe\u00e1 byrja\u00f0i fundurinn. \u00a0Fyrst var myndas\u00fdning til a\u00f0 koma \u00f6llum \u00ed gott skap. \u00a0S\u00ed\u00f0an ba\u00f0 einn kennarinn (allir kennararnir eru kvenkyns, finnst eins og \u00e9g eigi a\u00f0 skrifa &#8220;ein kennaran&#8221;) alla um a\u00f0 tala stuttlega um hva\u00f0 krakkarnir okkar eru a\u00f0 gera \u00feessa dagana sem okkur \u00feykir j\u00e1kv\u00e6tt\/n\u00fdtt\/skemmtilegt. \u00a0Margir minntust \u00e1 s\u00edvaxandi or\u00f0afor\u00f0a og n\u00fdjar v\u00edddir \u00ed f\u00e9lagslegri heg\u00f0un.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>A\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed loknu t\u00f3k annar kennari til m\u00e1ls og sag\u00f0i a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r hef\u00f0u vilja\u00f0 kalla til \u00feessa fundar til a\u00f0 tala um hva\u00f0 er a\u00f0 gerast \u00ed \u00feroska barnanna okkar. \u00a0\u00deau eru nefnilega \u00f6ll a\u00f0 breytast \u00far sm\u00e1b\u00f6rnum (&#8220;infant&#8221;) \u00ed b\u00f6rn (&#8220;toddler&#8221;). \u00a0\u00cd \u00fev\u00ed felst helst a\u00f0 \u00ed sta\u00f0inn fyrir a\u00f0 lifa bara \u00ed &#8220;n\u00fainu&#8221; og sko\u00f0a heiminn me\u00f0 skynf\u00e6runum (munni, h\u00f6ndum) \u00fe\u00e1 eru b\u00f6rnin farin a\u00f0 muna hluti, l\u00e6ra r\u00fat\u00ednur og \u00a0\u00fereyfa sig \u00e1fram me\u00f0 huganum.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>H\u00fan lag\u00f0i s\u00e9rstaka \u00e1herslu \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00feessum t\u00edma v\u00e6ri mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 setja b\u00f6rnunum m\u00f6rk, en vir\u00f0a \u00e1 sama t\u00edma tilfinningar \u00feeirra. \u00a0Hva\u00f0 Bjarka var\u00f0ar myndi \u00feetta til d\u00e6mis \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0a a\u00f0 \u00feegar vi\u00f0 neitum honum um a\u00f0gang a\u00f0 opinni upp\u00fevottav\u00e9linni, og hann ver\u00f0ur f\u00fall, \u00fe\u00e1 ber okkur a\u00f0 segja hluti eins og &#8220;\u00e9g skil a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa ert rei\u00f0ur, en \u00fea\u00f0 er h\u00e6ttulegt a\u00f0 leika vi\u00f0 hn\u00edfa&#8221; (e\u00f0a &#8220;hn\u00edfur, \u00f3-\u00f3&#8230;&#8221;). \u00a0H\u00fan minntist l\u00edka \u00e1 a\u00f0 b\u00f6rn \u00feroska marga \u00fe\u00e6tti samt\u00edmis, ekki bara tungum\u00e1l og svo f\u00e9lagslega heg\u00f0un, heldur b\u00e6\u00f0i \u00ed einu, \u00fe\u00f3 svo a\u00f0 eitt geti veri\u00f0 meira \u00e1berandi en anna\u00f0 af og til. \u00a0\u00cd lokin minnti h\u00fan okkur \u00e1 a\u00f0 b\u00f6rn \u00feroskast \u00e1 s\u00ednum eigin hra\u00f0a, og a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 ekkert a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Eftir \u00feann fyrirlestur var okkur foreldrunum skipt \u00ed \u00ferj\u00e1 h\u00f3pa, og vi\u00f0 be\u00f0in a\u00f0 &#8220;brainstorma&#8221; um \u00ferj\u00e1r spurningar. \u00a0Spurningarnar voru &#8220;hva\u00f0 er n\u00fdtt&#8221;, &#8220;\u00e1 hverju hafa \u00feau \u00e1huga&#8221;, &#8220;erfi\u00f0leikar \u00e1 \u00feessum aldri&#8221;. \u00a0Hver h\u00f3pur skrifa\u00f0i s\u00ednar hugmyndir ni\u00f0ur \u00e1 st\u00f3rt bla\u00f0 og \u00feegar vi\u00f0 vorum b\u00fain, \u00fe\u00e1 f\u00f3r einn \u00far hverjum h\u00f3pi yfir \u00fea\u00f0 sem h\u00f3purinn haf\u00f0i tala\u00f0 um. \u00a0Ferlega bandar\u00edskt, en samt gaman a\u00f0 heyra a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk er a\u00f0 eiga vi\u00f0 s\u00f6mu hluti og ma\u00f0ur sj\u00e1lfur. \u00a0Mig grunar l\u00edka a\u00f0 kennurunum hafi \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00e1hugavert a\u00f0 heyra hva\u00f0 er a\u00f0 gerast \u00e1 heimavelli.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Upp \u00far \u00feessu spunnust sm\u00e1 umr\u00e6\u00f0ur, en s\u00ed\u00f0an var skipt um g\u00edr og fluttar &#8220;almennar tilkynningar&#8221;. \u00a0\u00cd bl\u00e1lokin var fari\u00f0 yfir reglur um veikindi barna og hven\u00e6r \u00feau mega m\u00e6ta \u00e1 leiksk\u00f3lann eftir veikindi o.s.frv. \u00a0\u00dea\u00f0 er b\u00fai\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera miki\u00f0 um veikindi \u00e1 leiksk\u00f3lanum og \u00e6tli \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 ekki veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 draga \u00far \u00fev\u00ed. \u00a0\u00dear me\u00f0 var fundinum sliti\u00f0 og vi\u00f0 f\u00f3rum og n\u00e1\u00f0um \u00ed krakkana og h\u00e9ldum heim \u00e1 lei\u00f0.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>R\u00famlega fj\u00f6gur \u00ed dag m\u00e6ttum vi\u00f0 Finnur \u00e1 foreldrafund \u00ed bekk Bjarka. \u00a0Hann var me\u00f0 \u00f3venjulegu sni\u00f0i, og greinilegt a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 var veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 pr\u00f3fa eitthva\u00f0 n\u00fdtt. \u00a0Kennararnir \u00fer\u00edr h\u00f6f\u00f0u sum s\u00e9 h\u00f3a\u00f0 \u00ed allar fj\u00f6lskyldunar sj\u00f6 og be\u00f0i\u00f0 okkur um a\u00f0 hittast \u00ed &#8220;margnota-herberginu&#8221;, sem er st\u00f3rt r\u00fdmi nota\u00f0 fyrir kynningar, vi\u00f0ger\u00f0ir, geymslu o.s.frv.<a class=\"button\" href=\"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/2009\/02\/foreldrafundur-2\/\" title=\"Read More\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-263","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","post-container col-md-12"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/263","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=263"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/263\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=263"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=263"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=263"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}