A\u00f0 d\u00fala e\u00f0a ekki d\u00fala<\/strong> Sum s\u00e9, \u00feetta er lausn “samf\u00e9lagsins” vi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hj\u00fakrunarf\u00f3lk er alltaf \u00e1 \u00fe\u00f6num og \u00e1 vaktaskiptum, og \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 s\u00edfellt algengara a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk b\u00fai langt \u00ed burtu fr\u00e1 m\u00e6\u00f0rum s\u00ednum og \u00f6\u00f0rum sem myndu annars vera vi\u00f0staddir f\u00e6\u00f0inguna… A\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfs\u00f6g\u00f0u kostar \u00feetta sitt, vi\u00f0 heyr\u00f0um ver\u00f0 \u00e1 bilinu $600 til $1200 per f\u00e6\u00f0ingu, en \u00e1 m\u00f3ti kemur a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem hefur veri\u00f0 me\u00f0 d\u00falu er v\u00edst vo\u00f0alega \u00e1n\u00e6gt me\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0, s\u00e9rstaklega fe\u00f0urnir sem eru \u00fear me\u00f0 undir minni “pressu”.<\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 er skemmst fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 segja a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 hittum eina sem okkur leist b\u00e1\u00f0um \u00e1g\u00e6tlega \u00e1, en \u00e9g er enn\u00fe\u00e1 ekki viss hvort \u00e9g vilji d\u00falu e\u00f0a ekki. \u00dea\u00f0 togast \u00e1 \u00ed m\u00e9r a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur eigi ekki a\u00f0 \u00feurfa a\u00f0 borga fyrir a\u00f0 eignast b\u00f6rn, a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur s\u00e9 bara a\u00f0 pjattr\u00f3fast \u00fev\u00ed fullt af b\u00f6rnum f\u00e6\u00f0ast \u00e1n a\u00f0sto\u00f0ar d\u00falu og hvort \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 sni\u00f0ugt a\u00f0 vera me\u00f0 svo gott sem \u00f3kunnuga manneskju inni hj\u00e1 s\u00e9r \u00ed lengri t\u00edma… Kv\u00f6ldi\u00f0 var sem \u00e1g\u00e6tlega fr\u00f3\u00f0legt og sni\u00f0ugt, \u00fe\u00f3 ekki nema vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00fear me\u00f0 poppu\u00f0u upp alls konar spurningar sem vi\u00f0 vorum ekkert farin a\u00f0 p\u00e6la \u00ed. N\u00fa er bara a\u00f0 spurningin, “\u00e1 a\u00f0 d\u00fala e\u00f0a ekki d\u00fala”?!?!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" F\u00f6studagur 14. n\u00f3vember 2003 A\u00f0 d\u00fala e\u00f0a ekki d\u00fala Vi\u00f0 Finnur f\u00f3rum \u00ed kv\u00f6ld \u00e1 svokalla\u00f0 “Meet the Doulas Night” hj\u00e1 Blossom Birth (sem er sta\u00f0urinn \u00fear sem vi\u00f0 erum \u00e1 barnseignarn\u00e1mskei\u00f0i og \u00e9g fer l\u00edka \u00ed j\u00f3ga \u00fear). Fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 sem eru ekki inni \u00ed “ling\u00f3inu”, \u00fe\u00e1 eru doulur (d\u00falur) konur sem ma\u00f0ur r\u00e6\u00f0urRead more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1154","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","post-container col-md-12"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1154","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1154"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1154\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1154"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1154"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hrefna.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1154"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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Vi\u00f0 Finnur f\u00f3rum \u00ed kv\u00f6ld \u00e1 svokalla\u00f0 “Meet the Doulas Night” hj\u00e1 Blossom Birth<\/a> (sem er sta\u00f0urinn \u00fear sem vi\u00f0 erum \u00e1 barnseignarn\u00e1mskei\u00f0i og \u00e9g fer l\u00edka \u00ed j\u00f3ga \u00fear). Fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 sem eru ekki inni \u00ed “ling\u00f3inu”, \u00fe\u00e1 eru doulur<\/a> (d\u00falur) konur sem ma\u00f0ur r\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00ed vinnu vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa manni a\u00f0 ganga \u00ed gegnum f\u00e6\u00f0inguna – sem er nokku\u00f0 sem vinkonur e\u00f0a kvenkyns fj\u00f6lskyldume\u00f0limir eru oft kalla\u00f0ir til (en \u00fea\u00f0 er erfitt \u00feegar ma\u00f0ur b\u00fdr \u00ed \u00fatl\u00f6ndum). Ma\u00f0ur hittir d\u00faluna s\u00edna fyrir f\u00e6\u00f0ingu til a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a hvernig ma\u00f0ur vilji helst hafa \u00feetta, h\u00fan spyr spurninga um hvernig ma\u00f0ur slaki helst \u00e1 o.s.frv. S\u00ed\u00f0an \u00feegar kemur a\u00f0 f\u00e6\u00f0ingunni, \u00fe\u00e1 kemur h\u00fan heim til manns \u00feegar hr\u00ed\u00f0irnar hefjast og hj\u00e1lpar vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 gera \u00fea\u00f0 allt saman sem b\u00e6rilegast (mismunandi stellingar, heitir\/kaldir bakstrar) og hj\u00e1lpar til vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 segja til um hven\u00e6r s\u00e9 gott a\u00f0 fara \u00e1 sp\u00edtlann. \u00deegar \u00e1 sp\u00edtalann kemur \u00fe\u00e1 er d\u00falan me\u00f0 manni allan t\u00edmann og hj\u00e1lpar til vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 t\u00falka \u00fea\u00f0 sem fram fer og vera til sta\u00f0ar allan t\u00edmann. Eftir f\u00e6\u00f0ingu kemur h\u00fan svo \u00ed heims\u00f3kn einu sinni til a\u00f0 athuga hvernig gengur.<\/p>\n